Chandlers often blame the mould when a release problem actually comes from the wax. Separate the two before ordering another tool.
Paraffin is one of the easiest materials to demould. As it cools, it shrinks cleanly and pulls away from the wall. With a well-made tool, you should be able to release a paraffin pillar with a firm squeeze, without any release agent. If you're struggling with paraffin, the issue is likely to be the geometry or wall thickness.
Soy is softer and stickier, with less predictable shrinkage. It can cling to a matte surface, and in a warm workshop, a soy pillar may be too soft to demould without marking. Cooling matters more than the mould in this case, although firmer silicone and a smoother cavity can both help.
Coconut blends are softer still and often oilier. That makes release easier, but definition harder, so fine detail can round off. If you want crisp edges on a coconut blend, you are fighting the wax. The honest answer is to simplify the shape rather than keep buying moulds.
Beeswax and palm are covered separately in sizing a mould around your wax, along with approximate pour temperatures. Whatever you pour, tell your mould maker the exact wax and additive load.